If it is to be, it is up to me.
That statement to me means that if I want to be physically fit, it is up to me to achieve that. It's not somebody elses respnsibility if I want to achieve something. You have to take respnsibility for your own life and not always for someone to blame for your problems. Achieving your goals without any help is better anyways. So "If it is to be, it is up to me" for everything i do in life.
“Nothing can stop people with the right mental attitude from achieving their goals.” - Thomas Jefferson.
11-14-11 #3
This statement means that no one should be able to stop you from achieving your goals. You should have the determination to keep goin when obstacles are thrown at you. No one should be able to hold you back. You can do anything you put your mind to. Have the drive to push forwrad when bad things happen.